Friday 11 May 2012

Father's Unconditional Love!!!

What Makes a Dad

God took the strength of a mountain,
The majesty of a tree,
The warmth of a summer sun,
The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature,
The comforting arm of night,
The wisdom of the ages,
The power of the eagle's flight,
The joy of a morning in spring,
The faith of a mustard seed,
The patience of eternity,
The depth of a family need,
Then God combined these qualities,
When there was nothing more to add,
He knew His masterpiece was complete,
And so,

He called it ... Dad
                                              -Author Unknown

Unconditional Love!!!   

The love between father and children is really unconditional...
One of my favourite films ABHIYUM NAANUM is really marvellous which shows the deep love of a father towards her daughter!!
I do have many expectations about my father... And I also do have a lot of expectations of how my husband should be to my children...
Usually girl babies are close to their fathers as they dont scold them...
Mothers usually seem more strict when compared to the fathers.. 
The true reason behind this is that Either one of the parent must be strict to make the children disciplined!!
Both of them being strict will cause frustration to the children when they grow...
I have admired many ppl who grew up their children in a very different way!! One of my best friends' father is really a unique man.I have learned a lot about how to grow up kids from her family...

Mothers are very mature than fathers...
A father's unconditional love ...
A man who is really tough and strong in heart becomes tender once he knows that he is going to be a father...
He becomes a day dreamer thinking about his baby...   

He takes care of his wife better than ever...

He really gets tensed thinking of his dear wife and baby's health...

He tries to plan almost everything for the child before it comes to the world...

On the day his child is born, he will be jumping in joy giving sweets to everybody he sees... 


When he finds his child walking he will be the first person to be happy!!    

   He tries spending the maximum of his time even when he is busy!! 

  He plays with them in the evening and finds what they are interested in!! 


   He encourages them at every failure!! He tries to guide them at all stages of life!!     


  
    He tries to be a good friend to his children and makes them share feelings!!

 
   A fatherly relationship is really wonderful... But... Many fathers now a dayz dont try to spend time with their children.. They go abroad for earning!! This is really pitiful... The lonely children really live in Hell missing their father!! 



Remember that you are the first hero of your child!! Live with them!! Spend time with your family!!
The father's role in child's development is very important!!
Share a lot with your chidren...
The First and foremost thing that every father should do for their children is to love their mother...
They see you and grow!!
If a girl sees the characteristics of her life partner similar to her father's characteristics, then he is a good choice!!! And she is really lucky!!!

 
   AND TO ALL MY MALE FRIENDS!! AND TO ALL FATHERS!!!
   BE A GOOD FATHER!!
   CHERISH YOUR CHILDREN.. BE FRIENDLY TO THEM!!!
MAKE YOUR HOUSE A SWEET HOME!!  

 

 

 

Tuesday 8 May 2012

A Mother's Love Is a Blessing!!

I would love to share a poem on Mother's Love!!

An Irish boy was leaving
Leaving his native home
Crossing the broad Atlantic
Once more he wished to roam
And as he was leaving his mother
Who was standing on the quay
She threw her arms around his waist
And this to him did say

A mother's love's a blessing
No matter where you roam
Keep her while she's living
You'll miss her when she's gone
Love her as in childhood
Though feeble, old and grey
For you'll never miss a mother's love
Till she's buried beneath the clay

And as the years go onwards
I'll settle down in life
And choose a nice young colleen
And take her for my wife
And as the babes grow older
And climb around my knee
I'll teach them the very same lesson
That my mother taught to me

                                                                        - Thomas P Keenan

When she is newly married... 


                          

She enters the home leaving her parents, her friends and all her belongings with lot of expectations from her husband and family. Even when she doesnt get what she expected, she never fights for it. She remains silent and just waits for her own child to come to this earth... She tries hard to give all her joy and fulfills all the expectaions of her child...

When she is carrying her baby...

 

She starts dreaming about her baby... She spends sleepless nights for her child... She becomes picky while eating dishes for the sake of her baby even when she likes to eat all sort of food. She talks to her baby silently the whole day.

When getting her child ready to school...

She wakes up early in the morning... Makes what her child loves the most.. she enjoys making her child ready to school... Listens and involves with her child when he/she speaks about the happenings in the school...

                                

She makes her child learn hard by studying along with her/him... 

When her child grows up and leaves to college...


She gets fear of leaving her child in a few years... Always thinks whether her child is comfortable at hostel... She counts the number of dayz for the weekends to come as she can meet his/her son/daughter... She sets up her mind that she has to leave her child after few years...

When she gets her son/daughter married...


She sheds tears and no words are needed to express her love and affection... Her tears are the best proof of the purity of LOVE!! 


But What Todayz daughters and sons give their mom and dad in return?!
                        

They just forget how their mom suffered to bring them to such a great place... They just send them to the Old Age Homes!! 

Every child and daughter must cherish their mother!! They must know the pain of ignoring the ones who love them truly !!

   SAY NO TO OLD AGE HOMES!! KEEP YOUR PARENTS HAPPY !!!

AND THATZ TRUE LOVE!!!       

Saturday 28 April 2012

A Trailer to show wat my blog is about!! :)

Love is..........

The child's affection towards his puppy...

The first gift every mom gives her child when he/she is born...


The element of bonding between mother and father...


The sweet dance between them... :)

The music which never irritates...


The doing without any expectation...

 


Friday 27 April 2012

My First Step.... Good Morning all !! :) Welcome to my blog!!

Today!!! 28th of April'12 I created my blog :)... I am really excited !! Dunno hw cme this blog wil reach ppl.... Am still happier that I could share what is love to ppl !! Share your own thoughts abt luv... Love is Life... There is no life without love... wish me happy blogging!!  Hope I will satisfy your expectations...