Friday 11 May 2012

Father's Unconditional Love!!!

What Makes a Dad

God took the strength of a mountain,
The majesty of a tree,
The warmth of a summer sun,
The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature,
The comforting arm of night,
The wisdom of the ages,
The power of the eagle's flight,
The joy of a morning in spring,
The faith of a mustard seed,
The patience of eternity,
The depth of a family need,
Then God combined these qualities,
When there was nothing more to add,
He knew His masterpiece was complete,
And so,

He called it ... Dad
                                              -Author Unknown

Unconditional Love!!!   

The love between father and children is really unconditional...
One of my favourite films ABHIYUM NAANUM is really marvellous which shows the deep love of a father towards her daughter!!
I do have many expectations about my father... And I also do have a lot of expectations of how my husband should be to my children...
Usually girl babies are close to their fathers as they dont scold them...
Mothers usually seem more strict when compared to the fathers.. 
The true reason behind this is that Either one of the parent must be strict to make the children disciplined!!
Both of them being strict will cause frustration to the children when they grow...
I have admired many ppl who grew up their children in a very different way!! One of my best friends' father is really a unique man.I have learned a lot about how to grow up kids from her family...

Mothers are very mature than fathers...
A father's unconditional love ...
A man who is really tough and strong in heart becomes tender once he knows that he is going to be a father...
He becomes a day dreamer thinking about his baby...   

He takes care of his wife better than ever...

He really gets tensed thinking of his dear wife and baby's health...

He tries to plan almost everything for the child before it comes to the world...

On the day his child is born, he will be jumping in joy giving sweets to everybody he sees... 


When he finds his child walking he will be the first person to be happy!!    

   He tries spending the maximum of his time even when he is busy!! 

  He plays with them in the evening and finds what they are interested in!! 


   He encourages them at every failure!! He tries to guide them at all stages of life!!     


  
    He tries to be a good friend to his children and makes them share feelings!!

 
   A fatherly relationship is really wonderful... But... Many fathers now a dayz dont try to spend time with their children.. They go abroad for earning!! This is really pitiful... The lonely children really live in Hell missing their father!! 



Remember that you are the first hero of your child!! Live with them!! Spend time with your family!!
The father's role in child's development is very important!!
Share a lot with your chidren...
The First and foremost thing that every father should do for their children is to love their mother...
They see you and grow!!
If a girl sees the characteristics of her life partner similar to her father's characteristics, then he is a good choice!!! And she is really lucky!!!

 
   AND TO ALL MY MALE FRIENDS!! AND TO ALL FATHERS!!!
   BE A GOOD FATHER!!
   CHERISH YOUR CHILDREN.. BE FRIENDLY TO THEM!!!
MAKE YOUR HOUSE A SWEET HOME!!  

 

 

 

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